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About the EAP<\/h3>\n

Bridging the gap between problems and solutions
\n<\/em><\/strong>The EAP is designed to assist employees in a wide range of work-related and personal issues<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

The EAP is a service for Ramapo College faculty and staff and their household members. The EAP offers short-term counseling and referral for problems ranging from work-related concerns to personal difficulties that affect an individual’s everyday life. Ramapo College’s People Operations and Employee Resources Department has arranged with Employee Consulting Associates (ECA) to provide this service to you and your household members at no cost. Dr. Michael J. Kahn is the Director of ECA.
\nDr. Kahn may be reached by:<\/p>\n

Telephone<\/strong>:\u00a0888-291-1524 or 973-761-5303
\nFax<\/strong>:\u00a0973-761-5005
\nE-Mail<\/strong>:\u00a0drmjkahn1@gmail.com<\/a><\/p>\n

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<\/i><\/i><\/i><\/span>Employee Assistance Program Referral Form<\/div>
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TO: ______________________________________________________
\nFROM: ___________________________________________________
\nRE: Referral For Counseling With The Employee Assistance Program
\nDATE: ____________________________________________________<\/p>\n

Employee\u2019s Name:__________________________________________
\nTitle: _______________________________
\nDepartment: _______________________________________________
\nPhone No. ___________________________<\/p>\n

Supervisor’s Name: _________________________________________
\nPhone No. ___________________________<\/p>\n

Employee’s Days Off: _______________________________________
\nShift: _______________________________<\/p>\n

The above named employee is being referred to the Employee Assistance Program for counseling for the following reasons: (Please be specific regarding the reason for referral. If necessary, you may attach pertinent supporting documentation, ie. letters of counseling, performance appraisal, significant events, etc.).<\/p>\n

EMPLOYEE HAS BEEN ADVISED OF THIS REFERRAL
\nYES __________
\nNO __________<\/p>\n

NOTE:<\/strong> An employee needs to be advised that a referral for counseling is being made in order for an appointment to be scheduled. Without the information from the supervisor, the EAP counselor only hears one side of the story – the employee\u2019s. Your information is crucial in being able to resolve the problem.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n

<\/i><\/i><\/i><\/span>Notes for Family, Friends, and\/or Union Members<\/div>
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If you know someone who you believe “has a problem” or would benefit from counseling, a referral to the EAP is a good first step. As a co-worker, spouse or significant other of a person involved in drugs, alcohol, gambling or mental illness you can easily be dragged into their “pool of insanity.” The results of this unhealthy pattern is often one that “drowns” both people.<\/p>\n

The key to helping someone with these problems is to find a balance between helping and enabling the problem. The tough love approach is the sanest approach for you to follow. By following some of the guidelines through the organizations and books referenced below you will not ignore the person\u2019s problems, nor will you enable the person by helping them avoid the negative consequences of their behavior.<\/p>\n

Keeping your balance in these situations is much more difficult than it would seem. The closer you are to the person with the problem (the dependent) the harder it becomes to “detach with love”. Al-Anon\/Narc-Anon\/Gam-Anon are all members of proven 12 Step\/Self Help programs to assist friends and family members to cope with these very difficult situations. When needed a professional counselor can be used to assist in an “intervention” to help the “dependent person” by confronting the denial and by supporting a referral to treatment.<\/p>\n

If any of these issues are affecting you, start by contacting your EAP or utilizing your State Health Benefits to seek private counseling. A third option is to reach out to the self-help groups mentioned below to begin your program of recovery and regain the balance in your own life.<\/p>\n

References:<\/h4>\n